What Is Giftedness?
Has anyone ever called your child “gifted?”
Maybe you’ve even wondered yourself if they have certain gifts after observing their unique qualities first-hand.
Of course, as a parent, you might not want to jump to the idea that your child is gifted without knowing what it really means.
Giftedness in a child refers to the ability to learn and process things quickly. There are multiple areas of giftedness, from academics to music.
It goes beyond your child just being interested in something; instead, it focuses on how well they do something that might be considered beyond the norm for their age.
It’s important to recognize the signs of giftedness in any child, but it’s especially important for children who might have challenges in other areas of life, including neurodivergent kids.
With that in mind, let’s take a closer look at giftedness and what it might look like in your child.
What Are the Signs of Giftedness?
Giftedness can look different from child to child.
However, there are some common traits and characteristics to look out for.
If your child comprehends things above their age or their peers, it could be a sign of giftedness.
If they have high emotional intensity, a superior memory, or a curiosity for life, those can all be clues.
Gifted children often learn things quickly and easily.
They have strong problem-solving skills and longer attention spans than normal.
They might also prefer the company of older individuals instead of their peers.
Some children showcase giftedness through creativity, including a unique imagination or an ability to think outside of the box.
Again, giftedness can look different for everyone.
But if you notice that your child thinks or behaves in ways that are beyond their years, you shouldn’t ignore those characteristics.
Giftedness and Challenges
It’s not uncommon for children who are considered gifted to also face unique challenges or even disabilities.
These children are sometimes called twice-exceptional.
They often deal with conditions like ADHD, autism, dyslexia, or other sensory-processing issues.
Twice-exceptional children might struggle in certain areas of life and go beyond all expectations in others.
Not recognizing their giftedness or challenges (or both) can cause lasting issues.
For example, your child might be diagnosed with a learning disability for not being able to read well, but they can do mathematical equations that they shouldn’t be able to process for years.
It’s essential to make sure they receive the right diagnosis so you can utilize their strengths while helping them navigate any struggles or weaknesses.
Some children with challenges might try to hide behind their giftedness, so it can be harder to see that they’re struggling elsewhere.
Pay attention to those signs, and don’t hesitate to work with a neurodivergent specialist or therapist for answers.
Finding the Right Support
As a parent or caregiver, supporting your gifted child is essential for their growth.
If your child attends a traditional public or private school, work with their teachers to ensure they’re experiencing appropriate challenges.
It’s also important to look for programs outside of school that can give them a platform for exploring their interests and strengths.
Clubs and organizations for gifted children can introduce your child to peers who might be closer to their intellectual level, which can boost their confidence and help them realize they aren’t so different.
In addition to educational support, make sure you’re giving them the love, guidance, and care they need socially.
It can be challenging for a parent or caregiver to navigate the waters when you have a gifted child.
If you need help and support, don’t hesitate to reach out.
You can’t pour from an empty cup, and the more you’re willing to care for yourself and learn how to meet your child’s needs, the better.